5 SEXUAL FANTASIES U CAN DO 2NITE!

Five sexual fantasies you can do tonight 

Switching it up in the bedroom by living out sexual fantasies doesn't have to be scary. Often it's the simplist fantasies that can really take him over the edge, from indulging his inner voyeur to allowing him to be submissive to your sexual prowess.

Dress up, bondage and domination might be the textbook fantasies that come to mind, but there are some easier ways to spice things up that you can do without completely abandoning your comfort zone.
Put your worries to one side and try something new - a little extra creativity in the sex stakes could reinvigorate your relationship. Read on for five man approved fantasies that you can get down to tonight - no whips required (unless you want to of course!)

The New Coat Surprise 

Treat yourself to a new coat and some fancy underwear.

Turn up at his (getting a cab there is probably best) and go inside, telling him you need advise on the coat.

Sit him down and get his opinion. He likely will be complimentary, but a little confused, which is how you want him.

Juice the situation, and then carelessly remove the coat to reveal what’s underneath. If experience is anything to go by, his jaw should hit the floor.

 

Somewhere Unusual  

As time wears on, couples’ routines tend to dictate that sex only happens in the bedroom. It’s sort of an unwritten rule that after a few years, sex happens before bed, in the bedroom, at the usual time.

Flip that on it’s head by taking your man somewhere unusual. Think about ledges in the house that you can use, chairs or sofas, or even the kitchen table.

Tell him you’ve always wondered why you haven’t tried having sex in this place, and use the house as your sexual playground.

Switching it up this way forces you to try new positions, which means you touch different parts of your partner, meaning the sex not only seems different in the new location, but it genuinely feels different.

So use that window seat/kitchen table/sofa and watch sparks fly!

 

Total Control

Often gender stereotypes can take over, whereby the man is largely in control of what happens during sex, similar to a man leading whilst doing a waltz.

Don’t let this happen! If the man is always in control, he will invariably run out of ideas or get lazy, leading to predictable, run of the mill sex.

Furthermore, if you’re not jumping all over him how will he know you’re still excited to be with him?
 

Try telling him that you want to take control and, for the evening, he is nothing more than your plaything. He will be your toy and as you command his every move, he must obey.

To begin with, make sure you are the one having sex with him, and as you tire (which you will!), start ordering him to do the things you want done to you.

Be very vocal about what you are enjoying. He will get off on the newfound power you have, as well as watching you go crazy for the things he is being made to do to you.

At the end, tell him he can do whatever he wants to do to you, and watch him as if he’s a kid in a candy shop. HOT.

 

A Little Struggle

Sex toes the line between intimacy and being a little racy, a little naughty and a little dangerous. Try exploring a little power struggle where force comes in to it slightly.

Tease him by turning him on, then telling him you’re not interested in sex. Keep teasing him, keeping a glint in your eye, but as you’re just about to have sex, hold him off and say you’ve changed your mind.

Make sure he knows you’re playing with him and he’ll know what to do next.

Lines like ‘What are you doing?’ and ‘you’re bad’ said in a sultry tone will make sure the tone stays sexy, but as he asserts himself as a man and has his way with you, you’ll be privy to some prime, animal sex that after will likely make you feel closer than you’ve been before.

 

Mirror Image 

Many couples will have this already in their arsenal, but incorporating a mirror in to your sex life can have brilliant effects.

Not only does it mean you can see your partner from multiple angles during sex, which is HOT, it also lets you see how you’re doing.

Many couples find that they try new positions, as well as improve the ones they already know.

Using a mirror can instantly refresh your sex life, as your viewpoint is completely overhauled.